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Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Pros and cons of living alone

Living with family is always very comfortable and pleased as we are with the loved ones that are there with us from our childhood. We are ourselves with them. They are the ones who will treat us like king or queen. All of our wishes will be granted. On the other hand living alone has its own advantages and disadvantages. It’s a paradise for the ones who always wish to be alone. It can be as enjoyable as one can dream of. People who love peace, freedom and independence can enjoy living alone.
As it says good things also come with some negative aspects. Living alone also has certain good and bad points. But it will always depend upon the situation and our way of handling things. There are many people who want to spend most of their time alone as compared to others. The people who have always lived in joint families or with bundle of people, long for living alone.
The college or the young people, the financially independent earners or people who just want to go for self-expression are the one who live alone.

The pros:

The place where you stay will always be as per how u want to keep it be it clean, organized, dirt free or dirty.
U can always make your favorite food without thinking about others’ choices. If you do not like cooking, you can go out and eat at your own convenience.
You can anytime announce party with lots of friends, alcohol and music without fear of anyone to stop you. You need not worry even about cleaning the place after the party.
You are your own boss. You are in charge of everything. There is no one to give orders or suggestions like waking up in the morning, coming home on time or sleeping early.
You can make your own time table to do the whole household work and even if you want you can make it a mess if you like it that way.
The whole place will be quiet and peaceful so you can actually concentrate on your work or can even spend it doing all the extra curricular activities to express yourself.
You can have the furniture, color of the walls and other items of your own choice. You don’t have to make it look good and comfortable as per the family requirement.

The cons:

If you are the one who like socializing then living alone may not be a good option. You always have to find people to talk with.
If you meet up with certain emergency, there is no one to take care of you. You have to manage it yourself until someone from friend or family arrives.
When you are in charge of everything, you are the only one who has the whole burden of paying all the installments as it will be solely your responsibilities.
In times of financial crisis, there is no one you can depend upon for financial aids.
When you are tired of working so hard at your work place, you only have to do cooking for yourself.
There are times when you will need an emotional support but living alone will actually make you realize that you need someone to share your life.
After all the pros and cons, it is very clear that it’s not an easy game to live alone. It will still differ from person to person and situations. If you are living alone and feel the need for someone to be with, you can call up your friends or hang out with them. Living alone can find new opportunities for learning new things in life like cooking, dusting or laundering. You can cherish the own time to enjoy being you.

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